Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Presidents Day

My Presidents Day is one day late, sorry nevertheless, lets reach into the distant past to find a president that very few people (save history buffs and professors) know about. On Presidents day many yearn for the days of Reagan and his no nonsense approach  and calm steady hand at the wheel. However there were other presidents  that were very instrumental in shaping the country that we now live in.

Lets move away from Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln, Reagan, to our 11th president. This man came into office with four clearly defined goals. At the time our country was mostly east of the Missippi river and James Polk was poised to dramatically expand it!

Among some of his favorite quotes were: "Foreign powers do not seem to appreciate the true power the true character of our government."  While in that day he was referring to Britain and Mexico, it couldnt be more true today. Our country power and respect has declined in the world, and many will continue to challenge it, not the least of which are the followers of Islam.

"There is more selfishness and less principle among members of Congress...than i have had any conception of, before I became president of the United States. "TRUE AGAIN. human nature hasnt changed at all, there are more self serving, egocentric people in Congress than anywhere else in the world.

Polk believed in being a one term president and stuck to his word,.More Congressmen and woman ought to follow the same lead. Congressmen go into Washington with the idea of changing it, instead it forever changes them!

He also said, "No president that preforms his duties faithfully and conscientiously can have any leisure"  While i do not totally agree with this, his point is clear. His focus was on being a servant to the people, not a demagogue or celebrity to the masses. Today our presidents  recline in luxury and take long extensive vacations, Polk was dedicated to the issues of state.

Among his goals were:

The expansion of Oregon territory, which included California, a vital acquisition for westward expansion.

the expansion of Texas and  New Mexico, He established dominance with Mexico, which went to war with the country over New Mexico and California.

The lowering of tariffs, in the Walker tariff act of 1846, that opened up free trade.

He also consummated the Louisinia Purchase which articulated the "Manifest Destiny" so crucial to the growth of our nation, and the opportunity for each citizen to find his own place in the  West.

These goals were essential to the continous  growth and prosperity of the nation, and James Polk was front and center. He spoke and then delivered on those lofty goals.

Lastly Polk also oversaw some of the events;

The opening of the Naval Academy

The opening of the Smithsonian

The Washington Monument

The issuance of the first postage stamps.

The country by our standards was still raw and untamed, but Polk went a long way to moving America along to the country that it was bound to be.

 On his deathbed he told his wife, Sarah Childress, which lived to be 88, "I love you sarah, for all eternity I will love you." Passing on early due to cholera, he embodied as steadfast love that is become rarer by the day. She never married again, and dressed in black until she died in 1891. Our country could learn something from this man.

We salute James Polk on this President day, long gone but not forgotten.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

MENTAL STATES

Learning to speak well in public is a wonderful skill that can pay off handsomely if you use it well. I have made this one of my goals, yet since the start of the New Year have yet to start it. I went with a friend to check it out, and what do you know they ask me to do one of their table topics.

Now I wasnt feeling all that well, and said to myself, this is  not one of those nights i want to give any kind of speech..It is  just hard to flip a switch and feel good and on your toes, when you have told yourself "bad day"  The body follows the mind, so I got up there to opine on FB and had precious little to say and no humor to add with it. I felt awkward and somewhat disappointed with myself...

Learning to deal with your awkward moments is even more important. One of the most important thing to do is to learn how to change your mental state. Not easy but possible. Thinking on your feet and pulling stuff out of the air even when it isnt your favorite topic, is hard, but it i a good exercise.  Instantly i started critizing TM and how they evaluate everything to death. However most of it is positive feedback, and it helps people feel like have a peer group upon which to lean on as they strive for personal and professional growth.

I have felt that awkward moment with sale calls, socializing, and being put on the spot; if we let it spur us on to greater development and mental flexibility we get stronger and more confident in the long run.

Dont let awkward moments where you didnt look the way you wanted, let it be a CATALYST. Tony Robbins has some excellent work on managing your mental states for success.http://www.affirmations-for-radical-success.com/mental-techniques.html